Lifetree Adoption Blog
Birth mothers: 30 questions to ask potential adoptive parents
Birth mothers: 30 questions to ask potential adoptive parents
As a birth mother, you are the one who gets to choose the family who will raise your child. That is a sacred kind of responsibility, and it belongs to you. You will look through family profiles and read sweet words on a page, but a profile can only show you so much. The real picture comes when you get to talk with a family, ask your questions, and listen to how they answer.
If you have the chance to meet prospective adoptive parents before placement, come prepared. You are not being […]
Does it cost anything to place a baby for adoption?
Does it cost anything to place a baby for adoption?
If you are facing an unplanned pregnancy, you are probably carrying more questions than answers right now. One of the most common worries we hear from expectant mothers is also one of the easiest for us to put to rest: “Can I even afford to do this?”
Here is the good news, plain and simple. Choosing adoption costs you nothing. Not a single dollar. At Lifetree Adoption, placing your baby with a loving family is always free to you as a birth mother, and it will […]
I am 6 months pregnant and not ready to be a parent: what are my options?
I am 6 months pregnant and not ready to be a parent: what are my options?
If you’re six months into an unplanned pregnancy and you have already decided that you do not want to keep the baby, please know this first: you are not alone and it isn’t too late to make a decision. You are not making a shameful choice by thinking carefully about your future and your baby’s future. Many of the women who reach out to us at Lifetree Adoption are exactly where you are right now. They are often well into the second or third trimester, they feel the weight […]
Will my child hate me if I choose adoption?
Will my child hate me if I choose adoption?
If you are pregnant and considering adoption, this question may be the one keeping you awake at night. It is one of the most common fears birth mothers carry into the decision, and it deserves an honest, compassionate answer.
The short answer is no. Children placed for adoption do not hate their birth mothers. The longer answer is more nuanced, more hopeful, and rooted in something real: the truth that placing a child for adoption is one of the most loving acts a mother can make. […]
What is a home study and what does it involve?
What is a home study and what does it involve?
If you are in the early stages of exploring adoption, you have probably come across the term “home study” and wondered exactly what it means. For many prospective adoptive families, it sounds intimidating… like an inspection or an audition where someone decides whether you are good enough to be a parent. We want to reassure you right away: that is not what a home study is.
A home study is a process of preparation, education, and mutual discernment. It is designed to help your family get ready for one of the most meaningful commitments you will ever make, and […]
Is adoption right for your baby? Four signs to prayerfully consider
Is adoption right for your baby? Four signs to prayerfully consider
Discovering you are pregnant can bring a wide range of emotions. For some women, there is immediate joy. For others, there may be fear, confusion, or uncertainty about what comes next. If you are facing a difficult situation, you may be wondering whether adoption is the right choice for your baby.
As a Christian adoption agency, we believe every life is created with purpose and value. We also understand that choosing adoption is deeply personal. These are the most common signs that adoption may be the right path for you and your child:
1. You are facing an unplanned or unwanted pregnancy
An unplanned pregnancy can feel completely overwhelming. You may have […]
Why should you choose Lifetree?
Why should you choose Lifetree?
Why should you choose Lifetree? We can sing our own praises and give you reasons all day long… But sometimes, it’s better to hear about Lifetree and the experience of working with us birthmothers who’ve placed their children with us in the past. This video shares real stores from real women – so you can hear their stories, in their own words.
If you’re pregnant and considering adoption, please don’t hesitate to call or text us […]
Busting a few common adoption myths
Busting common adoption myths
Unless you’ve been through the process before, adoption can be an intimidating process. Our goal at Lifetree is to make the process easier and less confusing for both birthmothers and adoptive families – so it can be the wonderful experience it’s meant to be. Unfortunately, there are many myths and misconceptions about adoption that make things more confusing.
According to a report from the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, 42% of adoptive child-parent relationships are “better than ever expected.” Most people want to adopt a newborn, which is different than adopting an older child.
You’re not giving up – you’re choosing a better future
You’re not giving up… You’re choosing a better future!
The most common phrase associated with adoption is “giving up” a child for adoption – but that’s such a negative phrase. You’re not giving your child up, you’re choosing a better future for your child. You’re giving an amazing gift to another family. You’re making people’s lives change for the better.
For many years, adoption was a dark secret of our society, but the public viewpoint has shifted. It’s no longer something to hide or talk about behind closed doors. In fact, it’s commonley celebrated in today’s world. The perception has changed, and it’s time to change the language we use around adoption as well.
At Lifetree, we’ve talked about using positive adoption language for years, and we wanted to share a list of positive adoptions terms to help shift the narrative. The more we all […]
I got her pregnant… 6 Tips for birth fathers
I got her pregnant…
6 tips for birth fathers
You’ve just heard from your girlfriend, your wife, or your ex that she’s pregnant. You weren’t planning for a baby, and neither of you is ready. Take a deep breath – you’re probably in shock.
It’s perfectly normal to be scared or frustrated. We know it’s huge news. You don’t want to be the cliche – don’t claim that it’s not your child and don’t even think about leaving town. You’ve got choices too – these 6 tips will help you step up to the plate and play an active role in the decisions that will be made about your baby and your future.
1. Don’t bail on your girlfriend/wife/ex
You can’t ignore what happened. The more you try to ignore it or run away from it, the harder it will be to think […]
