Will my child hate me if I choose adoption?

Will my child hate me if I choose adoption?

If you are pregnant and considering adoption, this question may be the one keeping you awake at night. It is one of the most common fears birth mothers carry into the decision, and it deserves an honest, compassionate answer.

The short answer is no. Children placed for adoption do not hate their birth mothers. The longer answer is more nuanced, more hopeful, and rooted in something real: the truth that placing a child for adoption is one of the most loving acts a mother can make. […]

Is adoption right for your baby? Four signs to prayerfully consider

Is adoption right for your baby? Four signs to prayerfully consider

Is adoption right for your baby? Answers to common questions about adoption in the Dallas areaDiscovering you are pregnant can bring a wide range of emotions. For some women, there is immediate joy. For others, there may be fear, confusion, or uncertainty about what comes next. If you are facing a difficult situation, you may be wondering whether adoption is the right choice for your baby.

As a Christian adoption agency, we believe every life is created with purpose and value. We also understand that choosing adoption is deeply personal. These are the most common signs that adoption may be the right path for you and your child:

1. You are facing an unplanned or unwanted pregnancy

An unplanned pregnancy can feel completely overwhelming. You may have […]

I got her pregnant… 6 Tips for birth fathers

I got her pregnant…
6 tips for birth fathers

You’ve just heard from your girlfriend, your wife, or your ex that she’s pregnant. You weren’t planning for a baby, and neither of you is ready. Take a deep breath – you’re probably in shock.

It’s perfectly normal to be scared or frustrated. We know it’s huge news. You don’t want to be the cliche – don’t claim that it’s not your child and don’t even think about leaving town. You’ve got choices too – these 6 tips will help you step up to the plate and play an active role in the decisions that will be made about your baby and your future.

1. Don’t bail on your girlfriend/wife/ex

You can’t ignore what happened. The more you try to ignore it or run away from it, the harder it will be to think […]

Answers to the most common questions about adoption

Answers to the most common questions about adoption

answers to common questions about adoptionAdoption is a journey of faith, love, and hope. As a Christian adoption agency, we understand the complexities and emotional aspects involved in this process. We hear a lot of common questions from both birthmothers and adoptive families, and in this post, we’re going to share the answers to these common adoption questions. As always, if you have questions, we’re here to help! You can call or text us any time at 972-491-3333.

Common questions from birthmothers

How do I know if adoption is the right choice for me?”

Deciding to place your child for adoption is a deeply personal choice. We encourage you to consider your current life circumstances, your future goals, and the well-being of your child. We offer counseling and […]

Unplanned pregnancy – what should you do?

Unplanned pregnancy – what should you do?

You’ve just taken a pregnancy test and you’re stunned by the results – you’re pregnant, and you weren’t planning on it. Unplanned pregnancies happen all the time, but that doesn’t help lessen the shock and fear you’re hit with when it happens to you. You’re at the beginning of an emotional journey, and you’re not sure how to proceed. Pregnancy will change your life, whether you planned to be pregnant or not.

Talking to someone who knows what you’re going through will help more than anything, and we’re here for you 24 hours a day, seven days a week – simply call us at […]

8 resources for birth mothers

8 resources for birth mothers

Placing a baby for adoption is an emotional rollercoaster, and emotional support is a huge help for any women who are going through the process. One of Lifetree’s most important goals is supporting birthmothers throughout the adoption process – and beyond. We’re here to answer your questions, listen to your concerns, and even to be a shoulder to cry on.

There are a variety of options for emotional support, both in person and online. If you are considering adoption, have already decided to place your child, or have placed in the past, we wanted to share 8 amazing resources to help you find the […]

The best adoption blogs of 2021

The best adoption blogs of 2021

Adoption can be an overwhelming and stressful journey. Whether you’re a birth mother looking to place your child with a family, or an adoptive family looking to adopt a new baby, the questions and the unknowns can be incredibly challenging.

We’re always here to help, on both sides of the fence. We know that having someone experienced in your corner can help ease the stress, but many times, it’s most helpful to know what it’s like to be in those shoes. Over the years, many birth mothers and adoptive families have turned to blogging, sharing their highs and lows through posts online.

We thought it would be helpful to share a list of some of the best adoption blogs, so you can learn about others’ journeys with adoption. You can read […]

10 Reasons to Place a Child for Adoption

10 Reasons to Place a Child for Adoption

common reasons for adoptionIf you’re pregnant and not sure what to do, please remember that “adoption is an option” – it’s a choice that you make for very specific reasons. You’re making a decision – both for your child and for yourself – that’s based in love and compassion. As we always say, you’re not “giving up” your child for adoption, you’re making a decision to “place” them for adoption with a loving family.

There are a multitude of reasons that birth mothers choose adoption – and we know from years of experience that every situation is […]

Tips for Your First Call With a Birth Mother

Tips for Your First Call With a Birth Mother

tips for your first phone call with a birthmotherThe adoption process can be complicated and emotional, but one of the most exciting (yet nerve-wracking) moments in the process is your first call with a birth mother. It’s a momentous call, and if it goes well, it could change your life forever. It’s important to remember that the birth mother is just as nervous as you are, so we’ve put together this list of tips to help you calm your nerves so your first conversation goes well. […]

How to choose a good adoption agency

How to choose a good adoption agency

how to choose an adoption agencyWhether you’re expecting and exploring your options or you’re a family looking to adopt a new baby, finding the right adoption agency is an important yet scary step in the process. It’s a major life decision, so it’s important to make the right choice.

We know you have a ton of questions to ask – and we’re here to help answer those questions! Finding the right adoption agency makes all the difference in the world. You want an agency that takes personal interest in your adoption journey, not an agency who treats you like just another number.

Over the years, we’ve worked with hundreds of birthmothers, adoptive families, birth centers, and hospitals. But most importantly, our founder Robin is an adoptive mother herself. When she […]

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