Should I give up my baby for adoption?
The most important thing to realize is that you’re not giving up – we said it in a past blog post, and we tell every birthmother we meet… You’re not giving up, you’re choosing a better future for both you and your baby. You can’t control everything in your life, and sometimes you simply can’t handle raising a child. Choosing adoption doesn’t mean you don’t feel the same selfless, unconditional love that every parent feels… In fact, choosing adoption is proof of that love, because you’re putting your child’s future and happiness above everything.
You’re not giving up!
That’s why we always say that asking yourself “Should I give up my baby for adoption?” is never the right question to ask. You’re not giving up on your baby, or yourself. You’re “placing” your baby for adoption and choosing a better future. You’re giving an amazing gift – not only to your baby, but to the adoptive family. You’re giving another woman a chance to be a mother – and it’s entirely possible she might not have […]